Trust

I am having a hard time right now. See, Kailey and Molly spent the night with their grandmother Thursday night. I sometimes feel guilty because they don't spend the night with grandparents that often. Call me selfish, but I personally like my kids, and I actually like having them around. Anyway, grandmother was going to trim their hair, and I agreed. They have needed trims for a long time, and I just haven't had it done. Long story short, they came home Friday morning, and Kailey's hair was about three to four inches shorter that it was when she went to grandmothers. If you know Kailey, her hair wasn't long to begin with. Now, it is about an inch above her shoulders! I am so upset about this because I did not want her hair cut short again. Kailey did want her hair cut short, and I have told her no, and even successfully convinced her to let her hair grow. Luckily, I wasn't home when the girls came home, and Todd had to deal with all this. He wasn't happy about it either. But, now he is over it, and I am now mad. I wasn't mad in the beginning because I really believe she did not mean to cut it that short, but the more I look at Kailey, the madder I get. I don't know what to do. I can't talk to her right now. When I got home and saw Kailey's hair, I had to take her to get a professional cut because it did not look good at all.
Grandmother says that it was an accident and she was just trying to even it up, and I guess it got out of control. Kailey and Molly said that Kailey ask grandmother to cut her hair. I just don't know who to believe. The entire situation makes me very upset. Her hair had just gotten long enough to have a decent size ponytail, and now we will not have a ponytail for at least another year. And, everytime I look at her, it is a constant reminder that I don't know if I can trust grandmother. I am just so confused. I think I just need to keep my distance so I don't say anything I may regret later. But, I know I will!